"Don't Try" 
Photo from visit to Bukowski's grave in summer of 2010
pictured are his novels & a couple of his poetry books
  
Story behind the quote: from 
http://bukowski.net/dont_try.php
A lot of people wonder what "Don't Try" means on  Bukowski's grave marker. The answer can be found in an interview with  Linda Bukowski in the May-August 2005 issue of the San Pedro zine The  Rise and the Fall of the Harbor Area.
  
The interview was conducted by Pedro local, Mike  Watt, bass player for the Minutemen.  
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Watt: What's the story: "Don't Try"? Is it from that piece he wrote?
Linda: See those big volumes of books? [Points to bookshelf] They're  called 
Who's Who In America. It's everybody,  artists, scientists, whatever. So he was in there and they asked him to  do a little thing about the books he's written and duh, duh, duh, duh,  duh. At the very end they say, is there anything you wanna say, you  know, what is your philosophy of life, and some people would write a  huge long thing. A dissertation, and some people would just go on and  on. And Hank just put, "Don't Try." Now, for you, what do you think that  means?
Watt: Well for me it always meant like be natural. 
Linda: Yeah, yeah.
Watt: Not like...being lazy! 
Linda: Yeah, I get so many different ideas from people that don't  understand what that means. Well, "Don't Try? Just be a slacker? lay  back?" And I'm 
no! Don't try, 
do. Because if you're  spending your time trying something, you're not doing it..."DON'T TRY."